Seth advice to a lovelorn woman

"What you are learning is a technique for self-development. You cannot
use it, therefore, to attain those things that do not pertain to your own
self-development and the techniques will not help you get something that
you were not meant to have nor that you have before decided as an entity
that you should not have. I will leave specifics for later. Nevertheless,
the facts remain that your own inner self and your own entity have given
you challenges that you have accepted.

"You must want what is best for your own development and the development
of others rather than specifically determining what you think is
consciously is better for you and trying to force or coerce fate to get
this for you. If you want what is best for your own development and what
is best for the development of others, then you shall attain it. It shall
come to you effortlessly.

"You are not always aware of what is best for you on a conscious level.
Often the person you think you want or need is not the person you want or
need on other levels.

"...inner development. If this is taken care of, it will automatically
lead you to the person that is best for you and to the circumstances that
will help you develop. To insist that a specific individual or a specific
goal be attained through these methods is limiting. There must always be
the acknowledgement that you do not consciously as yet realize the depths
of yourself, the goals you have set and the challenges..."

--Seth, early session 403 (for a lovelorn woman), March 16, 1968, 8:30 pm,
Saturday