From the back cover of Tam Mossman's Answer's from a Grander Self

From the back cover of Tam Mossman's Answer's from a Grander Self:

On romance: 'There are no rules in love, but these: 1) Do not violate your beloved's integrity; 2) Do not violate your own highest purpose -- 3) Nor allow it to be violated by another.'

On profiting from mistakes: 'View your past errors as experiments that yielded data you could have arrived at by no other means.'